I know for most of us Entrepreneurs… Christmas and New Years can be a pretty hectic/stressful time of our lives.  I love spending time with my wife and 4 kids, but to be totally honest with you… it’s REALLY HARD to keep your mind off of you’re business.

I don’t know about you but my goals and aspirations of becoming wealthy over the years was to first make sure my family and I were secure… and at the same time try to figure out ways of helping as many people as possible in need as I can.  Whether that be dinners for less fortunate… gifts for kids that couldn’t get any during these trouble times… helping my online friends such as yourself become more profitable in your business, or sharing the good word of Jesus Christ.

If you pile all that up with the 8 parties between tonight (December 23rd) and New years that my wife and I have to get our 4 kids ready each time… get all the gifts together… drive to each party… eat outlandish amounts of food leaving you drowned out and “laggy” (atleast for me)… these times can get pretty stressful right?

So What About All the NaySayers and NegaBots…

This time of year you are going to most likely be around a ton of family and friends.  Even to this day after making a great amount of money and becoming successful you still have some friends and family that will still think that what you do is not a real J.O.B. (just over broke) or that you’re being silly for raising a family being an internet marketer.

Now even though we all know that being an Internet Marketer with a “stable” business model is probably one of the most secure  ”JOBS” out there and especially one of the most profitable unless you’re in the NBA or Melanie Amaro that just won the X-Factor so instead of arguing… or even talking about your business around your family this year… just focus on THEM.

99% of the time your friends and family will never understand you because they do not have an Entrepreneurial mindset and most likely never will.  Also keep in mind that most people are struggling during these times so even the least bit of hearing how good you’re doing can throw them into a whirlwind of jealousy and hatred.  Sad but true.

So when someone asks you how you’re doing… focus on your family.  Tell them how you and your family are doing great and are closer then ever or whatever your situation is.

Be the LIGHT of the party.  Bring joy and happiness and more importantly put INCREASE into them.  Compliment them… show them how happy you are for them that they got that $10 an hour job… focus on THEM. Not You.

I better wrap this up or I could write all day on these subjects, LOL.

It’s now time for me to start getting the kids ready… finish wrapping the presents… and get my grub on at the first party of the season.

God Bless all of you and have a Safe and Happy Christmas,

Yours Truly,

- Bob Beckett